As we navigate through this difficult time, with parents working from home and children learning remotely, I thought I would take the time to share some positive affirmations. I know at times, the challenge of being a working parent can be so overwhelming that we forget to step back and find the positive in what our children are doing and learning. This is a quick list for you to follow and add to on this journey of parenting. This a wonderful way for you to foster and develop your child’s self esteem during these critical early years of development.
Rather than automatically saying “Good Job,” try one of these responses instead. By adjusting your responses, you will help your child build those foundations of positive self esteem right from the start.
The list includes:
You did it! (or repeat back what they did)
How did that make you feel?
You took a risk!
You should feel proud of yourself, I do.
I love that idea!
You made a plan.
That is interesting, tell me more.
I love your creativity.
You are learning to do XYZ on your own.
You used so much _________ in your picture.
I like the way you are thinking.
You showed kindness.
That was brave.
You are an..artist, painter, builder, climber, etc.
You worked really hard on that.
I can’t wait to see what you do next.
You made a good choice.
You can do hard things.
Show me what you learned or what you did.
You solved your problem.
Keeping being positive and keep working to build your child’s self esteem. You will be so thankful that you did!